{"id":421,"date":"2012-12-30T20:10:50","date_gmt":"2012-12-31T01:10:50","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/betzking.com\/blog\/?p=421"},"modified":"2024-11-29T17:07:31","modified_gmt":"2024-11-29T22:07:31","slug":"my-wish-for-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/betzking.com\/blog\/my-wish-for-you\/","title":{"rendered":"My New Year&#8217;s wish for us all&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<h4>On our path of personal growth, we&#8217;re always challenging our growing edge. \u00a0The growing edge is the place where things are uncomfortable and difficult, because they are new. \u00a0Behaviors maybe, or thoughts&#8230; habits, or skills&#8230; \u00a0Usually we embrace our growing edge only after trying to ignore it and getting our asses kicked. \u00a0The shadow stuff that keeps us fearful and small and under-actualized, if\u00a0given free reign, will take every single joy and spin it into a not-good-enough moment. \u00a0After enough of these not-good-enough moments, we surrender. 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